Friday, June 29, 2007

Are you nuts??

I felt so sorry to receive such an email from one of my friend who is bit nuts and her mind always doesn't make sense to me. When i read her email, i felt bit pity of her and yet i want to burst into laugh. I doubt that do you have self-humiliation?

My Dear,
Just want to tell you that you got your authority to send e-mail to Ed, to chat with him, to meet / see him ...etc. I am ok with it, you got your authority to choose friends. You no need scared me not happy and send different e-mail to me and different e-mail to him or hide it from my acknowledgement.

Dear Jo,
When I read your this e-mail. I really very touch. It really speak out a lady heart words.
But, how much that the guy will know?
I really regret to know Ed. Sometimes, I don't want to hear his phone call, don't want to talk with him & don't want to have any relations with him anymore. But, he will come back his pitty & try to make u laugh...I told myself this guy cannot be a husband but he can be a companion.
His return let me feel angry & more hurts. He is a selfish guy!!! Every times I went out with him, his eyes never stop at other girls. Sometimes I feel very pitty to myself & his wife, how can a man treat us like that even we as a lady besides him? Not only that, I found more & more things he lie to me. He is a man that love to has many girl friends.
Do u know how hurt am I when I found it out. I really hate him, feel 100% disappointed with him. Now, I really no more love with him. Even see him, also no more feeling...because he really hurt me too much....till I don't know how to forgive him!!
Why a man can treat us like this? I have made a wrong choice to continue the relationship with him. But, I just feel not dare to forget him that we have been passed our happy times. He is a man cannot give me any future. I really hope I can leave him.
I told u because u are the one who introduce me to him. Besides that, this is a good lesson for u. It can remind u that, find a sincere, trustable, loving & hardworking man. Not because he is rich, handsome, his background, his mouth (sweety words)...These man are no point to be a bf, husband or companion.
Take care.

Well, i introduced you to Ed , i don't mean that you have to be couple with him. Yet you love his money and became a gold digger as you always called me up to show off what he bought for you as per your wish list. Should i bother and care? I don't even give a damn! As i knew Ed is a guy who always love to call others for chating and date them out. But you don't have obligation need to stick with him if you don't like him. Mind you, i would not want to involve in your relationship problem and you needness to check on me how i response towards this matter which is non-of-my business. If you need a listener, i would love to be a devoted listener but yet please not haunt me day and night even midnight you would love to disturb me for nothing. I am trying to understand how you feel and view it from different point of view but i can't help you to solve your problem if you not willing to take the action. Do not compare your men with others, end up you just hard to please yourself. If you find a better option, make up your mind to make your choice. Again, please don't compare me with you and kind of treatments that you received from others. Sometimes stay in singlehood is not a really bad situation to clear your mind and enjoy the 'Me' moments till you meet someone loves you as you do to spend some quality times together. It's not a sin to be single, it's not my fault want to be alone if i tell you i don't attach with someone. As you know, sometimes you will meet Mr right at wrong time or Mr wrong at wrong time as well. I don't blame you to make a right/ wrong decision, but make sure you learned from it and pick up the lesson to become a better person.
If you don't like it, just leave it, if you can't live without him, just deal with it.
I know you always want to know that how am i doing? You always want to live better than me, go ahead. Mind you, that's my life and i've to drive my own rules towards my life!
Nothing is smooth & last forever, that's life, always up and down! Think optimistic and out of the box!
The greatest challenge always comes with the greatest reward!
It's your call to make your decision, leave it, take it, bear with it and deal with it.

Devoid of shame! please WAKE UP!

Thursday, June 28, 2007

Rules to stay young

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height.Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay "them!"

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets,keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable,improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9 Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people that you love them, at every opportunity.


Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

It's called a breakup because it's broken

I bought this book from Border bookstore, ~ It's called a breakup because it's's from the bestselling co-author of "he's just not that into you".

This book is the ultimate survival guide to getting over Mr./Ms. wrong and reclaiming your inner superfox and gain back your confidence. If you think your breakup is SUX to the MAX, after you read all the stories you will feel your story just one of the common case. Some of the stories are pain in the ass yet some are hilarious. The stories will come with helpful roadmap to help you for getting past the heartache and back into the game.

Breakups hurt like a motherF**ker, but they are not the end of the world. The pain is temporary, and if handled properly, they can even be life-changing.

We should grateful for everyday that we still have the very best friends and family in the world who always stand by us. We would have missed it all if we'd wasted our life trailing after our ex and staying stuck in our grief.

Life's biggest rewards come from the biggest challenges. Many of us have found the road to a better life and a truer love in the face of some serious heartbreak.

Read this book coz its ROCK!
Truly enjoy reading it...It's very inspiring...motivated me to move become a better person. ^_^

Wish all of you find your Mr. Right & Ms. Right in your life!

Tuesday, June 26, 2007


Such a long time never go for supper at night, i don't have such habit either.
Last Sunday, Jason, Mav & I were chating in MSN, both of them were yelling that they were starving, hungry...and craving for food. Suddenly a crazy idea popped up, they want go for supper at Rawang. Firstly i thought they just kidding me, OH NO! Both of them were serious about it, wanna go look for Jason at Rawang and hunt for food there. We took approximate 1 hr journey reached there, i told Jason i want to eat this and that, we went around the town, aww...WTH!!?? why all my favourite food stalls all closed? Don't want to do my business?#@$%$^$^!! Drove here closed, drove here closed!! Normally, those stalls won't close that early, something went wrong? They knew i am coming so refuse to open stall? *sob* Finally end up a chinese 'tai pai tong', manage to get 'bak ku teh' for Mav. hahahaa... Tired can!! hunt around for yummy food but i couldn't get woh!!! So full~~~ so late i had bak ku teh and rice, aww....go home 'smash' the bug on my bed. hahahaha... Thanks Mav for the ride and Jason Mashi for a great companied for the night. We had a glorious time. *Yawn*

dried bak ku teh & soup type bak ku teh
I grabbed the fat pork sliced oh..
Jason Diva bz cam whore-ing
Hot piping char kway teow
I don't know what is this...called as Taiwan fruits ice shaving.
Eh...?? chewing...chewing...Why mav's face looks so serious?

Don't care lah! just eat!!

AMMM......a big mouthful kway teow for Jason

Shang Palace

Irene has organized a gal outing & catch up session @ Shang Palace, she introduced 2 new girl friends to me. Of coz very happy to make some new friends, she been mentioned my name to these 2 gals quite some times ago, Evon & Serena, both of them are wondering how i look like? LOL! Just another ordinary ugly fat lady on the earth loh....
I was happy to catch up again with Dana who i didn't meet for than 8 months, she become skinny than last time. Lately she just changed her job, she is working near to Irene's working place, jealous lah, both of them always can hang out together loh.
It was my 2nd time visit at Shang Palace, this time we could ordered more dishes because we have more people can try out more dishes.
On that day i was bit exhausted after long hours torturing training and sat for 4 hours test paper. Somehow i still manage to entertain my friends till late night.*slaps myself ~wake up!!* We had a glorious time together! Serena introduced me MUST TRY signature desserts, lemon grass jelly with lime sorbet and durian dumpling. Kidding you NOT! It taste AWESOME!
We had tiger prawn with chilli sauce, sharkfin soup, szechuan soup, fish maw dried scallop soup, suckling pig, stir fried vegetables, deep fried 'gu low yuk', steamed fillet of cod fish with ginger, 'tofu fah' , lemon grass jelly with lime sorbet and durian dumpling. *Burp* So full!!!!!!! Y-U-M-M-I-L-I-C-I-O-U-S!

Shang Palace
The Lion ?? @ main entrance
self cam whore while was waiting for Dana
the menu cover
Shang 'S' logo on lazy susan
My jasmine tea
the red carpet!
Shang Palace's entrance
My seat oh...the table set up
"xiang gong" >> Shang palace
The corner of the restaurant
My chopstick & spoon
the lonely fat teapot
How to wrap the suckling pig with the slice of pao skin ah?
Evon & Jo
Irene & Jo
Jo & Dana
Japanese look~ Dana
Stir fried mixed vegetables
special sauce & sugar , sauce dip for sucklign pig
'tofu fah'
fillet of cod fish!
deep fried 'gu low yuk'
Tiger prawn with chilli sauce
crispy suckling pig
durian dumpling with filling
my durian dumpling!!~~
1 plate only 3 pieces serving nia..
my lemon grass jelly served with lime sorbet

Group picture
(L-R) Serena, Evon,Irene, Dana & Jo
What is that? Maze garden
The dragon portrait
Bufferfly lock? nah..just another paper bag design loh..for take away food. :P

Monday, June 25, 2007

Window of the soul

Fu-yoh!!! Wah!!
FREAK you OUT???
whose eye huh? hehehehehe.....