A Guy's Guide to Proposing

Marriage on your mind?
To start the party, we've gathered a plethora of proposal ideas you can customize to floor your intended.
Remember that your sweetie will be telling the story of how you proposed to friends and strangers for the rest of her life.

Go Public

For some, a public display of affection is the ultimate intimate gesture. Most movie theaters will let you buy a slide that plays onscreen before the feature. You can design your own and watch as the entire theater strains to see the lucky proposee's astonished _expression.

Convince the local theater to spell out your proposal on their marquee. Phrase it like a film title: "The Love of a Lifetime, starring (insert names here)."

Take the stage! Get in touch with the stage manager of an appropriately themed production and propose after the cast's curtain call (the stage manager will prep everyone and get you in position).

Have your proposal painted on a billboard en route to her office. Park beneath it or await their arrival at work, armed with champagne ready for toasting.

Take out a full-page ad in a newspaper you know your honey reads daily. Be nearby while they read, lest you miss the look on her face.

Gather all your friends for a big softball game. Give the outfielders signs that spell your intended's name and, "Will you marry me?" When she comes up to bat, signal them to display the signs. Tell your soon-be-fiance that if she hits one out of the park, a different kind of diamond awaits her!

Make a list of ten reasons you'd like to marry your beloved. Read them to her in front of a crowd, have a singing telegram deliver them, or send them written on note cards one by one over the course of a day (or ten!), with the last card arriving via personal messenger (you!).

Create a Web page declaring your love and intentions. Leave your sweetie a clue with the Web address written on it -- don't say a word. After the proposal has been officially accepted (which of course it will be!), she can proudly send the page to friends and family.

Perfectly Private (Please!)

Draw a bath for the two of you and place a floating candle or rubber ducky in the middle with a ring tied around its neck. Make a path of roses leading to the tub. (And make sure the drain is well-plugged!)

Speaking of paths, turn off all the lights in your apartment and make a trail of candles that leads to a circle of votives positioned around a ring.

Give your girlfriend a foot massage and place the ring on her little toe.

Send your sweetie on a treasure hunt. Start with a clue at home. Then send her on a tour of your favorite spots -- all over town, or just around the house. When she gets to the last hint, the treasure should be you offering up a ring or other sentimental token. They won't need another clue to figure out what you mean.

Sometimes the key isn't how you pop the question, but where. Find a special place, maybe the bar where you first kissed or the place you first told her you loved her. A place that means something to both of you. Once you're in position, just kneel and ask. Your honey will always remember that you remembered.

Tie a red velvet ribbon from one spot in your home to another. Attach little notes recalling perfect moments in your relationship along the way. You wait at the last stop, ring in hand.

You needn't propose with a diamond ring. Buy any jewelry piece or a watch and inscribe it with, "Marry me."

Surprise!

Want to really surprise your sweetheart? Cut out the bottom of a big box, wrap it with pretty paper and ribbon, and attach a card that says, "What's inside the box is a gift to last a lifetime." "Deliver" yourself to his or her office or front door.

A surprise trip is sure to set the mood. Blindfolds and intricate secret plans (you'll have to pack her bags)are a must to increase the thrill factor. Once you've reached your destination, pop the question.

Is she a deep sleeper? Slip the ring on her finger while she's dozing and wake her with champagne and strawberries. The gesture will just seem romantic -- until she discovers a new piece of jewelry adorns her.

The Way to a Loved One's Heart (Through the Stomach!)

Food is a tempting addition to any successful proposal! Spell out, "Will you marry me?" in M&Ms, jellybeans, or Hershey's Kisses on the kitchen table, bed, or coffee table. Send her in to read it; when she say yes, you can toast your future with a mutual sugar rush!

Surprise her with an intricate gift basket. Pile in yummy delicacies -- the best chocolate, caviar, coffee -- but don't limit yourself to food. You could also include silk slippers, a book or CD. Hide the ring among all these wonderful presents (in its box, so it doesn't get lost in the goodies).

If you're dining in a fancy restaurant, ask the wait staff to write, "Will you marry me?" in chocolate sauce around the rim of her dessert plate.

Make your intended breakfast in bed. Propose to him or her while they feel ultra-cozy and pampered.

Let Her See the Kid in You

Draw a hopscotch board on the sidewalk and invite her out for a game. Once she has succumbed to a little childhood play, replace the pebble you're using with the real rock!

Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers on your ceiling. Get into bed, turn the lights off, and wait for the inevitable gasp.

Write "Will You Marry Me?" on the underside of a kite and take flight one warm, breezy afternoon.

Spell out your proposal with refrigerator magnets.

Scratch your proposal into the frost on her car's windshield.

If it's Easter season, paint one word each from the phrase "Will you marry me?" on four eggs and hide them with the rest, so she has to find them all to make a complete sentence. Definitely make "marry" the hardest egg to find. You can throw in other eggs with funny verbs painted on them to throw your egghead off -- like kick, tickle, and love.

Hot Ideas Under the Sun

Go to the beach with her, casually build a sandcastle (at a safe distance from the ocean!), and place the ring on the highest turret. Invite her to admire your handiwork, then pop the question.

Go for a sunset sail and propose at sea.

While she naps on the beach, sneak away and spell out your intention in seashells. Then go for an afternoon stroll and let the shells do all the work.

Take her to the local fireworks show (if any), and have someone announce your proposal before your whole town.

Gather your families together for a summer barbecue and make your proposal a family affair.

Plan a scavenger hunt through a local park. Pack a picnic, and when you get to the park, send her along to find the first clue. Once she's out of sight, make yourself the last clue in a romantic spot with champagne on ice and ring in hand.

Invite her to a private pool party and send the ring floating toward them on a raft. (Note: This doesn't work in Jacuzzis.)

Write your proposal in sunscreen on your stomach, so that your tan will "stencil in" the words. She will be so touched you've taken such an, um, interesting approach, she will accept immediately.

Flying High

Hire a skywriter to spell your proposal on high.

Tongue-tied? Hire a plane to fly a banner with your "Marry me (insert name here)" message written on it. Take her to a wide-open space -- a beach, park, or stadium -- and simply point.

Hire a plane to draw huge hearts and your initials in the sky. When your sweetie notices what the pilot is doing, tell her that your love was heaven sent.

Flower Power

Flowers always charm -- what else exists solely to look beautiful? (Except your girlfriend, of course!) String the ring on a ribbon and use it to tie a bouquet of wonderful flowers (daffodils, tulips, lilies, or whatever reminds you of her) together.

Go for symbolism. Instead of the standard, albeit lovely, bouquet of roses, present her with a potted orchid. Put the ring beside the stem (in its box, so it doesn't get lost in the Spanish moss). The orchid will last a long time, will always be regal, and will bloom time and time again (just like your love).

Plant a colorful window box of forget-me-nots for her. Write one word each from the phrase "Will you marry me?" on four garden markers.

Sneak into her home or office armed with rose petals. In the biggest letters space will allow, spell out, "Will You Marry Me?"

Awww, So Sweet!

If it's cold and snowy, build a snowman and set the ring box in his stick arms.

Propose in a different language, or lots of different languages -- starting with French, the language of love.

Buy a baby animal that she has always wanted (bunny, kitten, puppy) and loosely tie the ring around its neck. Make a commitment to the pet and each other. Or, substitute a stuffed animal -- still fuzzy, but less maintenance!

Play Hangman and have the phrase be "Marry Me."