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Ask her about her hot friend
Women love to give advice and they are jealous of each other. Use both of these well-known facts to your advantage and ask her what you should do to hook up with her hot friend. While she may initially want to latch onto you more, she will ultimately get the hint that you’re just not feeling her, and she’ll probably even find a way to blame it on her friend -- double bonus points for you.
Tell her you have a friend that is perfect for her
After you’ve decided she’s not the one for you, use the information you’ve gathered on her to push her onto another guy. Point out how your buddy also cried when he saw the movie What Dreams May Come (1998), or any other common points they may have. Your buddy may be annoyed, but at least you’ll be rid of her.
Let her know how busy you are lately
Anytime she tries to contact you or you run into her, cut the conversation short. Bring up work, school or any other excuse to justify the fact that you have to run. Just be sure to point out that you love whatever it is that is taking up all your time and that you wouldn’t change a thing about your life.
Subtly highlight clashes of opinion
Politics, morals, values -- there are all kinds of hot-button issues you can subtly drop that will turn her off. If you know she’s a conservative, spout off something negative about the Bush administration and Fox News. If she has a kid, tell her you would never get involved with somebody who has children.
The not-so-direct approach
It sounds so simple, but spitting out the words “I’m just not that into you” can be extremely difficult. Get around this by letting her know that you’re just looking for a good time. Say something along the lines of how much you would love to hook up, but you respect her too much to make her just a ”friend with benefits.”
"Dear to us are those who love us. . . but dearer are those who reject us as unworthy, for they add another life; they build a heaven before us whereof we had not dreamed, and thereby supply to us new powers out of the recesses of the spirit."No matter how pretty you make it sound no one likes to be rejected. Unfortunately, dating and rejection are like love and marriage, you can't have one without the other. Of course, not every date will end in rejection. There is always the possibility that "the one" is the one you will be meeting tonight.
While you may be rejected one day, you can reject the next. But..Hey! It doesn't mean you are not good enough, just that both of you don't have the 'chemical' reaction and no spark between you and him/her, can't even hitch together. Don't be ashame being rejected or afraid to reject someone is not suitable for you, rather than waste time together which is not benefitial at all.
You lose something bad, you may gained something else. Be optimistic, it is not end of the world yet! There are plenty of fishes in the ocean, just be patient you will catch one for yourself! The chance will come along when you least expected. Cheers!
- Be polite. No "Get lost you loser" replies. Instead break it gently with "I don't think we're a suitable match and I really wouldn't want to waste any more of your time."
- If this doesn't work, see below. And if that doesn't work, a firm, "Please stop bothering me or I will have to report your behaviour" should do it.
- Blame yourself; "It's not you, it's me" may be a lie but it's still preferable to, "Your chin is too big and your profile makes you sound as bright as a broken light bulb."
- For online dating,when in doubt how to reply, delete. When they don't receive a reply, they will refer to the above pointers on how to deal with rejection.