Love? Money? Lust?

I just wondering...
Nowadays boy and girl relationship involves too many aspects..money & lust..where's the so called pure love gone? Sad to say that majority girls will look for materialistic aspect first, smart to squeeze the guy's money and to find those guys can afford to spend on her. So, it's love only? or just love his money only? or the guy / gal only look for lust satisfaction?

It was happening in my social life.. My gal friends, A, B & F My male friends C,D & G..

C told me to intro girls, so i introduced one of my friend A to him. Since C is desperate to get a gf and wanna to get marry soon. Coz C already in his late 30s'. A just broke up with bf, also look for new target.
At first, A doesn't really like C. But C really put his afford to woo A and wow her sort off.
Called her everyday, email her everyday to show his affection to her (for almost 2 months).
C buzz me that he hardly to date A out, so need my help to get her out again. So end up i became a 'lamp post' for this sooner-to-be couple.

Finally 2 days ago, A called up told me that they have officially start dating as a couple. I'm so glad to hear that. A will give C three months probation and subject to his performance.
A mentioned that she still bit scared of C.. C keep asking when he can hold her hand? when he can hug her?when he can kiss her? ALO! why so stupid one, these also have to ask permission one huh? If you ask the gal, people will think you are kind of depesprate or pervert lor...These all should come in mutual way.. Do it at the right time at the right place...DUH!

1st date, they went for movie. A mentioned to C she was bit tired, thus C offer his shoulder let her to lend on. But A felt that C was taking her advantage and keep squeezing her. (LMAO! what do u expected then?)

2nd date, she hinted C that her watch already one week not functioning, she need to get a brand new one. Then A make C to pay for her new DKNY watch cost RM200 over.
A mentioned that wanna test on C how much he cares and loves her. C even told A, his ex-gf cried he bought a diamond to make her smile. Gosh! So i guess A also wanna test on C on that too? C brought her to 'high class' golf club, introduced her all facilities, showed her off that he has the membership and financial stable to secure her. A told me she want to know how much C loves her and willing to spend on her!! Come on, please grow up..if you want to know how much a person love it doesn't mean you need to squeeze him and ask him buy everything you want (materialistic) in order to show you how much he love you!! If he willing spend thousand dollars on you that mean he loves u so much?!!! sometimes small little things and gestures do count..

C told A that he has bought 4 properties, one is semi-D. Wow, rich man! So, A might stick with him tho.. A mentioned that C is kind of romantic person, always make her so in love because he able to fetch her here and there, buy her this and that. Now, C wanna buy A diamond ring & perfume to delight her.

Out of sudden, A told me she's bit freak out and scare of C. Why???
Coz one of A's friend told her about AIDS. A's friend - E, E mentioned that her own brother has AIDS, skin with rashes and white patches..., the face and neck sort of skin disease... when E talked about this, A realised that C has the similar skin problem, acne scars, some rashes & white patches on neck. Hence, A suspected C has Aids since he always travel around for work. She worries that he went for hooker. So she insist want C go for medical check up soonest, whenever she asked C why his neck has scars, C refused to tell. A so curious about that. A even asked: if sharing a glass of drink will get Aids? Kissing will get Aids?
OMFG! Look, there's something in this world call CONDOM, eventhough is 99.99% for STD / STIs. But that's one of the method for precaution. If you have sexual intercourse relationship or blood contamination will have the highest chance to get Aids from your partner. Don't tell me such a general knowledge you don't know about it! (LMAO!)
A mentioned that she can't stand that what if C has Aids and she won't allow him to touch her, she feels it's DIRTY!

B is a cat woman, used to have many admirers. Everytime she hang out with me, can introduce different guys, let me to view how good is that guy. Nevertheless, she is pretty and attractive. She know how to manja to man, manage to make used and squeeze man. Smart ass let man fall into her trap. D wanna to settle down and get a gf (wife wanna-be). D is obsessed with B, B knew that he is fancy her and wanna go after her. D mentioned to B that he's a few companies MD; and also express his feeling to B. Hence, B start to squeeze D that she want to go Genting, she want to eat this and that, even demand D to give her monthly pocket money of RM300-RM400 if he wants her become his gf. D even used up company's money on B in order to please her as a princess. Besides D, B still has a few Bfs in hand, she still hang around with them with proper scheduled. Just wondering what B want from D? Just purely flirting and money?

G asked a favor from F that he need some cash to roll for emergency, promised that will refund in one week time. First at all, F still take deep consideration whether want to help G or not. G keep pursuiting F that: I'm your bf, i need help now, so you should help me!! Otherwise, I will be in the deep shit. F finally gave the money to G. But G didn't keep the promise to refund back on time, even drag it for weeks. On another hand, G even convinced F to have sexual intercouse. G mentioned that: If you love me then you should open up yourself to me, we should have those intimacy together.
What da FUCK?! So purely LUST or Love now? As a female, we still have the choice to decide want or not. Not because of love you, then need to have 'that' with you to prove that ' i love you'!

Is that materalistic really important in love relationship? yeah..of coz money is important in life, we need for living. But, money is that everything now? Money even can buy love? That's CHEAP LOVE!! Do you really value this kind of love build based on the monetary term? yeah..money can satisfy the gals what she wanted. But i believe spending quality moments / times together is the key issue.

Sometimes, i just pondering why some people really need to show off how rich he is? Once gals know you have money will stick with you because of your money instead love you in a person as who you are?? I would prefer some people rather stay low profile and humble, eventhough they are very rich.

Money is not everything, but without money u get nothing?
Money can't buy time, money can buy medicine but can't buy life. So how about love?

Pretty much senseless..this boy and gal relationship only build up on Money & Lust!?