Meaningful..

Another forwarded mail....

Today i received another forwarded email from my frenz...
Kinda nice to share....

Another forward?! but i think u should read on coz i choose to share this with you
a very touching story....
how could i let i just pass without me sharing with you all...
i myself have felt a loss.... and there were many times when i myself said "one day..."

A friend of mine opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up a silk paper wrapped package:

"This, - he said - isn't any ordinary package." He **unwrapped** the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box.

She got this the first time we went to New York , 8 or 9 years ago. She has never put it on, was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it. He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothings he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died. He turned to me and said:
"Never save something for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special occasion".

I still think those words changed my life.
Now I read more and clean less.
I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.
I spend more time with my family, and less at work.
I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through.
I no longer keep anything.
I use crystal glasses every day..
I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if i feel like it.
I don't save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to.

The words "Someday..." and "One Day..." are fading away from my dictionary.
If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now.

I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the
next morning, this nobody can tell.
I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends. She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels. I'd like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favorite food.

It's these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come. I would regret it, because I would no longer see the friends I would meet, letters... that I wanted to write "One of these days". I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't say to my brother and sisters,**
**son** **and** **daughters,** **not times** **enough at least, how** **much**I love them. Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep anything that could bring laughter and joy into our lives.. And, on each morning, I say to myself that this could be a special day..
Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.

If you got this, it's because someone cares for you and because, probably, there's someone you care about.

If you're too busy to send this out to other people and you say to yourself that you will send it One of these days, remember that "One day" is far away... or might never come...

Just do it! That's Nike slogan..
Dun keep pondering too much...just do it before you will regret when it's too late...

On track...???

Today just back to work...after a week of break away..papers over flood on tables.
but..my feeling likes mixed soup...yet so complicated...
I dun feel excited back to work, just drag myself to come..feel so drowsy..
just reckon working day by day as a drop dead boring routine; come to work for god sake of wanna to get $$ for living with no choice.. still await...for new opportunity ..any opening..to come along..i dun wan POLLY COME ALONG.. I just want a new job come along so badly...So demotivated...no challeging..lots of politic..lots of shit to be collected. Till one day i can't bear with it anymore.. kill me softly...
just back on track...and received a kinda unhappy news which i wouldn't want to know. Very disappointed...
but somehow still need to face the fact! sigh..
Wish me good luck!I want some GOOD NEWS!!!!

Home Sweet Home

Hurray!
Today i start on leave for 5 days...
Gonna back to home..spend some quality times with my beloved parents..enjoy mummy's home cooking...yum yum...can't wait now!
Finally i get my short break after all headache workload...everyday just work work work! Please give me a break, i need KITKAT! :P
I hope no one will buzz me from the office and ask some stupid questions for the upcoming events. Sigh..those superb dumb asses pls grow up and pick up your ball and run the show okay!? I'm so sick & tired to baby sit all of u!!Don't tell me i need to teach you how to S.H.I.T?!
Phew! I think i better off my mobile for while. *LMAO*
Ciao! noobs...i gonna have a breakaway...^o^

Korean BBQ

Edwin, Daphene & I went to Korean BBQ restaurant at Desa Sri Hartamas. It was my first time try out the typical korean food, so excited! ^o^
There 4 Korean restaurant there, Edwin recommented one of them. Hence, we went to Daorae Korean BBQ restaurant located at Plaza Crystal Ville Center - Level 1.
The moment we stepped in, Wow! almost full house.
The restaurant is pretty neat and clean, simple design with yellow paint wall.
Once we are been seated and start to pick the items from the menu - a la carte.
We ordered ox tougue, marinated chicken and kimchee soup with meat and vegetables.
Wow! so many side dishes to be served, let me count.... 1,2,3.... total 10 types of side dishes (condiments)...sweet bean,beansprout, seaweed, anchovies, fruits salad, spinach, radish pickled, kimchi, french bean, vege miso soup...etc.. and side dishes can be refilled. :p
The service was very attentive! The server did the BBQ for us, we just seat there 'observed' and wait for our food to be ready. The ox tongue was fabulous! dip with 3 different type of sauce (pls lah..dun ask me what sauce yeah,coz i also duno..:P) then wrap with lettuce and garlic...just munch and chew it! so juicy!! The chicken fillet took so long time to cook, Aww...
After finished up all the side dishes and meat, 'tang...tang..tang...' the big pot of kimchi soup with meat and vegetables was ready to served, wow..with noodle as well. I saw it so big portion, bit freak out! The end of the day, we can't finish it. Thanks god we canceled the egg pancake. We should blame Daphane, coz she ordered this. Next time should ban her for ordering. Our last dinner also facing the same scenario, she loves to order this n that, end up can't finish, we all become 'culprit' have to help to digest all!! so DAMN full! ~*burp~ (excuse me!)
It was a good try on Korean food, just simply delicious! i like it so much!
Anyone interested to go, can call 03-62032616 the restaurant contact number. The boss is very friendly, he knows what to recommend and provides warm welcome to the guest. :)

Clubbing

Phew...such a long time didn't go clubbing...aging..
yeah...i been stop going to club for couple of years.
most of my clubbing buddies been attached, seldom hang out, so no fun go alone as well. what to do? getting old already, after work just plenty of tireness.
Couple of days ago, my dearie brought me to Loft, kinda a new place to me where located next to Sheraton Imperial hotel. Those shop lots...
We suppose went bowling, but unfortunately closed for renovation, end up had coffee at coffee bean. After all, this party animal dearie wanna go have some music. So we end up at Loft. It plays R&B music, decent place for dance and drinks. It was a lady night. Can catch up some chics..fuiyo.. but chic normally came with man..so hopeless for pick up point. :P
We were sitting at bar area enjoyed our drinks and chatting with chris. Listening to some nice music, whole night only Clement enjoyed the most and shake his body with the music. :)

Tonight Jchanet called me up for 'yum cha' session, so i just dress up very casual one..We went mamak for drink with her frenz. Out of expectation, dearie wanna go to Bangsar Flam, so we met up there. It was packed and noisy, Jchanet's frenz, Peter leads us to the wrong Flame..it was closed..aiyo..restaurant of coz closed early what. End up walked up another stree, finally found the Flam bar.Hahaha..
Clement & Chris opened bottle of Jack daniel, five of us finished up half bottle of it. Shaked our butt ..sweat it out..enjoyed the music..imagine that Chris can almost fall asleep there...LOL
Such a long time never been to such a happening place to dance, what a night for me..tiring..smelly...coz ppl smoked inside there..nah..what do u expect then?
Anyway, it's fun to hang out with bunch of frenz and release out some frust..chilled out!!

How open minded are you?

You Are 68% Open Minded

You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded. Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints. But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line. You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself.

How Open Minded Are You?

Kinda accurate oh....^o^

Kawaii !! So cute!!

Look...these cuties...very familiar right?
reflects our reality in life...*wink*

"sob..sob.." oh sayang..pls don't cry...come..i manja you..at least u still have me...

Headache...Argh....!!!!

Oh...Papa...we all love ya...*smoochies*

Phew!...Ohh..Ah... Syok! Relax...enjoying the jacuzzi first...

Wah! Who is this? "Who am i?"
where's my hair gone?Gosh!! I want it back!!!

Romance?
love is in the rain...:P

erm..erm...
what da Fuck both of them talking about behind my back huh?
Gossiping again?

GOD! pls help me get out from this shitty place!!

Alo! please get up..dun press on me...
i dislike to be at the bottom, i can't breath now!
move you ASS out! i wanna to be on top! Oi! dun push ME! ENOUGH!!

Step by step, i believe i can get out from this bloody shitty hole.

Awks! Stomach ache..dun squeeze me anymore..dun bite me..please...

Hurray!Finally you are officially become Mine.. forever from now on...
'Just married' Tonight we no need to sleep yeah...i wanna pour all my love to ya...:P

Go away!Don't disturb me! i'm in my sweet dreamland!

Aww...when u gonna be back huh? it's freezing cold here...
i can't wait for u anymore..basket!

How do you sleep?

Some Quotations

Wisdom is knowing what to do with what you know.
If you want to find more,use these sites: -

Google
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~J.Winter Smith

And ever has it been known that love knows not
its own depth until the hour of separation.

~ Kahlil Gibran

The price of success in philosophy is triviality.

~ C.Glymour

If a guru falls in the forest with no one to hear him,
was he really a guru at all?

~ Strange de Jim

The root of all superstition is that men observe when a thing hits,
but not when it misses.

~ Francis Bacon

My theology, briefly, is that the universe
was dictated but not signed.

~ Christopher Morley

Ninety percent of the time things turn out worse than
your thought they woud.
The other ten percent of the time
you had no right to expect that much.

~ Augustine

Live never to be ashamed if anything you do or say
is published around the world --
even if what is published is not true.

~ Messiah's Handbook

To have died once is enough.

~ Publius Vergilius Maro

You can no more win a war than you can win an earthquake.

~ Jeannette Rankin

Kindness is the beginning of cruelty.

~ Muad'dib

Immortality -- a fate worse than death.

~ Edgar A. Shoaff

Great acts are made up of small deeds.

~ Lao Tsu

Truth never comes into the world but like a bastard,
to the ignominy of him that brought her birth.

~ Milton

You can always pick up your needle and move to another groove.

~ Tim Leary

...He who laughs does not believe in what he laughs at,
but neither does he hate it.
Therefore,
laughing at evil means not preparing oneself to combat it,
and laughing at good means denying the power
through which good is self- propagating.

~ Umberto Eco

I do not seek the ignorant; the ignorant seek me --
I will instruct them.
I ask nothing but sincerity.
If they come out of habit, they become tiresome.

~ I Ching

Fill what's empty, empty what's full, scratch where it itches.

~ Alice Roosevelt Longworth

If we don't survive, we don't do anything else.

~ John Sinclair

The major sin is the sin of being born.

~ Samuel Beckett

The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves.

~ Sophocies

One learns to itch where one can scratch.

~ Ernest Bramah

In the long run we are all dead.

~ John Maynard Keynes

Steamboat again~~

Last night went steamboat with Alice & Toby, they intro me a new type of steamboat at Taman Desa (near Alice's place). She told me is Taiwanese style, i not so sure about this. Bit difficult to find parking space, end up parked behind the shop, the funny thing was the shop has 2 entrance, one is front another is back, we used the back entrance whereby i can't see the shop name. So dun ask me what's the shop name??? :P

The shopkeeper gave us a choice for table seating, rectangular table with big steamboat stone bowl or individual seat with mini steamboat stone bowl at island table. We opt for the island table seating. Wow...is fun to see something different.

As for the menu, we have set menu selections and a la carte choice. The set selections price range is from RM17.90 - RM40 over, a la carte price range is from RM2 - RM22. Affordable price. :)
For set selections, there are choice of beef, lamb, pork , chicken and seafood. I ordered lamb set with vegetables. Alice had a la carte, very simply choice with 2 vegetables and tofu. Her hubby, Toby ordered pork set with vegetables.

Alice showed me how to do DIY dip....they will provide us a bowl of Sacha sauce, then DIY session with instruction signage (steps): put vinegar, light soy sauce, chopped garlic, chopped red chilli, parsley, chopped red chilli, chopped spring onion, chilli powder,special chilli sauce. Voila! here you go with the special dip. I'm sure u can't resist it as well! It taste absolutely YUMMY!

The boss came to our table, do small presentation...guess what?
He put a half moon stainless steel cover to cover up our steamboat and stove, simply stir fried the meat with onion, smell damn nice! the meat is half done, then set aside..he poured water into our stone bowl and let it boil. So we start our steamboat session, grab the meat, fish ball, meat ball, beancurd skin, corn, kani crab stick, golden enoki mushroom and vegetables put into the stone bowl. The meat goes very well with the special sauce, fabulous taste! I almost finished the whole bowl of the sacha sauce.

Guess what? This morning i was suffering stomach upset bcoz i ate too much of chilli!! Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh...... *pls dun laff at me, ok?*
I keep going on and off to washroom for the whole god sake morning!!
It 's the outcome i get after a good food indulgence. *LMAO*

To Realize...

To realize
The value of a sister
Ask someone
Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a still born.

To realize
The value of one month:
Ask a mother
who has given birth to
A premature baby.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one hour:
Ask the lovers who are waiting to Meet.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident...

To realize
The value of one millisecond:
Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics

Time waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.
You will treasure it even more when
you can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend:
Lose one.

Office STRESS