Merdeka!!!!

30 Aug 2005 is National Day's eve..our GM announced that all admin officers can go home @ 5pm (WTF, 30min early, better dun say it out!) somehow i left @ 6pm. Then Lynne invited me hang out with Mary and Wei Mun. We were waiting so long for Mary, she was late...waited for 1 hour plus...starving till wanna fainted liao...
We actually planned go for steamboat or Bambu Bali…when we passed by the pasta, grill & pasta café..Lynne suggested why not give a try?
So we stepped in the café…full of crowed..wondering the food really that nice huh?
Whole café only have 2 servers plus the shop owner, a kinda young man. He was person incharge of bar and cashiering. The interior design is simple, wall painted in 2 tones, yellow and orange colour with dime lighting. Kitchen concept is open concept, but with glass window, we actually can see what the cook were doing inside the kitchen (can view half only). We saw one person incharge of pizza only, 2 persons take care of cold and hot items and one old lady take care of stewarding. And we observed the kitchen staff, wow! What a kewl hair style, wearing full kitchen uniform with hat, but keep a pony tail and another one with kinda long hair style..FSMS totally failed! Hahahahaha….
The shop ownder presented the menu to us, so we took our own sweet time for food order. I ordered linguine with ham and mushroom in creamy sauce, Lynne had linguine with tiger prawn (actually small little prawn, the menu description leads faulty), Wei
wun had macaroni baked with fish fillet and Mary had grilled salmon fillet. We had ice lemon tea and ice peach tea. End up Lynne’s tea tasted weird cause they mixed up the peach tea with lemon..muahahhahaa….BTW, they served Lipton brand teas.
So we waited patiently for our food to be delivered, then after 25-30 min…our food are served. Erm..bit disappointed loh…Onion rings still alright..hot and yummy…Lynne’s tiger prawn become small little cheap cheap prawn and pasta tasteless, Wei Mun’s macaroni baked with fish fillet like kid menu portion, Mary’s salmon fillet so tiny slice, they sliced into 3 tiny slices served with spaghetti…mine one still ok lah..edible and with taste..hahahaha….End up with something sweet, apple pizza with creamy cheese..something new and special…a new taste for all of us…apple sliced with cinnamon powder and top up with cheese ,baked with pizza dough… the shop owner was smart enough to serve us ice water too.
After the late dinner, we decided wanna go to Halo Café at Sunway..Mary drove us there…was trapped in traffic jam badly, all entrance and exist of sunway pyramid were blocked by police…you only can see “people traffic”…everyone waiting for countdown Merderka! Some insane one sit on the road side with the flag..some stop their vehicles at middle of the road like nobody business. Damn scary…End up we gave up, just went through the USJ way go home…had a free late night trip..reached home before 12am…
Somehow missed out the fireworks countdown moment.But, my friend Kef he was so kind..he snapped some nice pictures and recorded the KLCC fireworks and shared with me while I was online chating with him.. WOW! Thanks Kef! Very nice of you! So I have a chance to see the “short moment” of the fireworks!!! MERDEKA!!!!!Happy 48 Merdeka Day!

The 90/10 Principle

this is sumthing nice to share with u all...worth to learn it...enjoy reading! ^_^

Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%. How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battlefollows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. Yourush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runsinto the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is " D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened. Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time". Grabbing atowel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, youcome back down in time to look through the window and see your child gettingon the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfullygreet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having. Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just makethings worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will beamazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle. The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. There never seem to be a success in life. Bad days follow bad days. Terrible things seem to be constantly happening. There is constant stress, lack of joy, and broken relationships. Worry consumes time. Anger breaks friendships and life seems dreary and is not enjoyed to the fullest. Friends are lost. Life is a bore and often seems cruel. Does this describe you? If so, do not be discouraged.. You can be different! Understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It CAN change your life.........!!!!!!!

True Love..Existing or not?

Sharing a touching story....

It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 am, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation. I asked him if he had a doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while, and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, and I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.>> I was surprised, and asked him. "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?"
He smiled as he patted my hand and said. "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."
I had to hold back tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
Oh, by the way, peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank.
"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything that comes along their way."
Sorrow looks back, worry looks around, but FAITH looks up.

Steamboat!!!

phew...straight 2 days in a row ..steamboat...buffet steamboat at same shop..whalao..almost killing my stomach...i've stomach upset for 2 days..keep going to washroom..
somehow really enjoy meeting up frenz ..chit chating and enjoy the atmosphere and food outthere...you must go there one day..strongly recommended..Yuan Steamboat @ Sunway.. the marinated BBQ chicken wing is so damn nice..fingers licking good...and a lot of variety ..u can eat as much as u can..only pay RM18.80 per person..worth it..value for money too..tomyam soup is fabulous..even my fren's bf from UK also love it so much...ehehhe....the prawns are so fresh...definately u will love it too...so dun wait for more..let give a try...heehhe....Bon appetite!

说话的速度

急事， 慢慢的 说
大事， 清楚 的 说
小事， 幽默 的 说
没把握 的 事， 谨慎 的 说
没 发生 的 事， 不要 胡 说
做不到 的 事 ， 别 乱 说
伤害 人 的 事， 不能 说
讨厌 的 事， 对 事不对人的 说
开心 的事 ，不要 见人就 说
别人 的 事，小心的 说
自己 的 事 ，听听 自己 的 心 怎么说
现在 的 事，做了 再 说
未来的 事， 未 来 再 说
如果 对我 有不 满意 的 地方， 请 一定要 对 我 说

Women....Age?!!!

Women at 20 is like soccer, many people chase.
Women at 30 is like basketball, a few people chase.
Women at 40 is like ping pong, i push to you and you push to me.
Women at 50 is like golf, hit far away....
Hahahaha...

Why Ladies today are still single??

Top reasons why ladies today are still SINGLE
1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual,don't think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome,somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.
NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?
"Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with."

Like Vs Love

喜 欢一个人，在 一起的 时候永 远是快 乐
爱一个人， 你会常常流 泪
喜 欢一个人， 当 你们好久 不 见， 你会突 然想 起 他
爱一个人， 你会天天 想 着 他
喜欢一个人， 当你 想起 他， 你会 微微 一 笑
爱一个人， 当 你 想 起 他， 你 会对 着 天空 发呆
喜欢一个人， 你会 想 他 有 了 孩子， 你 一定 会 喜欢
爱 一个人， 会有一天， 你 突然 很 好 奇， 将来 我 们的 孩子 会是 什么 样子?
喜欢一个人 就是 希 望 大家 都 开心
爱一个人 希望 他 会 开心
喜欢一个人， 你要 的 只是 今天
爱一个人， 你 期望 的 是 永 远
喜欢 一个人， 在 一起 的 时候 会 很 开心
爱一个人， 在 一起 的 时候， 会 莫名 的 失落
喜欢一个人， 你 不会 想 到 你们 的 将来
爱一个人， 你们 常常 在 一起 瞳 憬 明天

Vrey Isetirentng!

Can you understand ? able to read? hehehe..enjoy and have fun...

爱 你 在 心 口 难 开,大 胆 说 声 “我 爱 你”

我 爱 你，这 是 多 么 简单。
又 是 多么 沉 重 的 三 个 字 啊。。。。
轻 松 得 不 用 一 秒 钟 就 能 说 完，沉 重 得 许 多 人 用 一 生 去 犹 豫，终 究 没 有 说 出 来。。。
How often you say I LOVE U?
May be everyday or may be not even once..It can be so easily express towards a person or not even dare to express at all.. too shy to say it?
There are plenty of ways for you to express “I LOVE U”. You can write it ..email it..sing it…draw it...shout it out..and in different language form…
May be it’s such a piece of cake to somebody to say it everyday, eventually it means nothing....may be it’s true or not? but if u dun express ur love, who will know it’s real? Erm… it’s might not be a easy task for you to express in such a way (verbally) but u can show it by action!
U have to express it with sincere...passionate way..When you say it in different way, the person listen to it will feel it different way…ur pace..tone…and eye contact is one of the critical point…
In your heart might have an obstacle,but….dun be shy..dun be afraid…no need to wait anymore..if u are not express ur love and feeling yet, it’s not too late to tell someone that you love her/him now..Be brave..be opened your heart…let’s start today to tell our parents,our pals, our sibling, our bf/gf…our beloved one..
“I LOVE U” ..shout it loud from your bottom of heart! Before it’s getting too late….you will regret the rest your life if you still keep it for yourself…Pls don wait any more, tell the person who you love that u love her / him today...*smoochies**

对 错 都 是 为 了 爱

当 事 情 发 生 的 时 候 ，做 了 已 经 做 了，成 了 已 经 成 了。
没 有 人 能 重 新 来 过，没 有 人 能 重 新 爱 过，就 让 它 那 样 吧！
沉 淀 为 岁 月 山 河 的 一 部 分，就 慨 然 地 接 受 吧！
只 是 ，在 爱 当 中 无 所 谓 对 错，

对 错 都 是 为 了 爱！爱，要 爱 全 部，爱 现 在 也 爱 过 去，不 能 只 爱 半 个。

Hazy day!

*sneezing* what da F***! Excuse me, pls bear with me..these hazy days drive me up to the wall..make me get sick..flu..nose blocked..coughing..dizzy..headache..what else is coming up?
the temperature keep going up, hottie day..everything seems look blur..*goodie* how i wish everyone also that blur sotong huh? the hazy condition is getting worst, this morning woke up, opened the window can't see opposite scene..driving way to office, the cars on the road look so blur too...sigh..hopefully the god damn government will do sumthing good to improve it...

Love.....

爱，总 是 有 条 件 的

不 要 说 你 无 条 件 地 爱 一 个 人，爱，总 是 有 条 件 的。
你 可以 什 么 也 不要 ，但 是 你 要 他 爱你，这 难 道 不 是 条 件 吗？
女 孩 说：我 的 确 是 无 条 件 地 爱 他，我 甚 至 不 须 要 他 爱 我。
是 的，即 使 他 不 爱 她，她 还 是 愿 意 守候 在他 身 边一辈子，她 爱 他 的 才 华。
如 果他 没 有 才 华，她 还 会 那 样 义 无 反 顾 地 爱 他 吗？不会了 ，她 的 爱，还 是 有 条 件的。
女人可 以 爱 一 个 人 顶 没 用 得 男 人，他 没 才 华，没 出 息。
女 人 说：这 还 不 算 无 条 件 吗？但 她 要 他 承 诺 永 远 和 她一起，要 他 承 诺 改 过 缺 点。要 一 个 男 人 付 出 承 诺，这 不 是 条 件 又 是 什 么？
男 人 说：我 就 是 爱 她这个人。
如 果 她 不 是 长 得 不 难 看，如 果 她 不 是 那 么 聪 明，不是 有 他喜 欢 的 性格，他 还 会 爱 她 吗？她 必 须 符合他 的 条 件 才 会 被 爱。
我 们 每一个人 都 是 被 有 条 件地 爱 着，也是 有 条 件 地 爱 着 别人。
不 必 心 灰 意 冷 ， 既 然 知 道世 上 没 有 无 条 件 的 爱，你 应 该 努 力 使 自己 更 具 备 条 件 去 被 爱，同 时 也 该 学 习 忘 记 一 些 条 件去 爱 一 个人。。。

Baby!!

Baby...a naive and cute baby...
yesterday i received my buddy's email frm L.A, she was bit down after receievd her doctor report..she is pregnant for 4 months, she is so happy to have her baby after her wedding in malaysia. that day she told me that her eye was sparkling with love ..when i heard her news, i really donno what to do and how to comfort her..her doctor told her that she has aneamic, hypertyroidism...sigh..she's so worry about her baby now..it will ease her and family mind too..we all encourage her go for 2nd opinion from another doctor and seek for advise. i hope she will be ok now..phew..that's life so unpredictable..